A Message From Our Founder…
No one truly understands how painful, frightening, and confusing divorce can be until they experience it themselves. I know I didn’t. I just knew I needed help breathing, and I had no one to turn to. Raised in a very religious family, the idea of divorce was never an option, and if you were divorced, you were forever tainted. When I decided to leave my hidden abusive marriage, I was a young mother with no money, no job, no family, and no friends outside the church. Every moment was terrifying. I’d never felt so alone in my life. I would have given anything to have had someone who could have supported me, helped me make wise decisions, minimized conflict, and focused on building my best future.
One thing I’ve always believed is that every experience in life shapes us. We get to determine whether it’s to help us grow and become the best version of ourselves or fall into despair and hopelessness. I chose to grow. I’m still growing, and I’m grateful for all the opportunities that come my way; many of them disguised as pain or suffering (most of the time!). I’ve gathered those jewels of learning and have focused my life work on bringing them back to the village on my own hero’s journey.
Divorce can shatter the foundation of everything you thought was solid, your identity, future plans, daily routines, and even your sense of self-worth. But together we will help you build something entirely your own, with stronger foundations and a blueprint that truly fits who you’re becoming.
HEALING THE WOUNDS OF DIVORCE
The Challenge
The legal system feels like a foreign country where you don’t speak the language. Every decision carries massive consequences for your future, but you don’t understand the rules.
The Challenge
Who are you when you’re no longer “we?” The roles that defined you have vanished. You stare in the mirror at a stranger, questioning every decision, every dream you once shared.
The Challenge
The numbers don’t add up. How do you maintain a home or build a future on half the income? The fear of financial ruin keeps you awake at night, making every purchase a source of anxiety.
Imagine…
Gaining clarity and confidence in navigating your legal journey, understanding your rights, and advocating effectively for your best interests.
Imagine…
Rediscovering your authentic self beyond any relationship. Building an identity rooted in your worth, not your relationship status.
Imagine…
Creating a realistic financial plan that empowers rather than paralyzes. Building confidence in your ability to provide for yourself and your family.
The Challenge
Your children are hurting, confused, angry—and you’re supposed to be their rock when you can barely stand. The guilt is crushing: Did you destroy their childhood?
The Challenge
Friends take sides or disappear entirely. You realize how much of your social world was built around being a couple, leaving you feeling invisible and utterly alone.
The Challenge
The life you planned has evaporated. Will you ever love again? Will anyone want you? Can you really start over at this age? The future that once seemed certain now feels like a terrifying blank page.
Imagine…
Becoming the stable, present parent your children need. Learning effective co-parenting strategies and creating new family traditions that bring joy and security.
Imagine…
Building an authentic support network that celebrates the real you. Finding your tribe of people who understand your journey and cheer for your growth
Imagine…
Embracing the freedom to write your own story. Discovering that starting over isn’t punishment—it’s opportunity. Building a life so fulfilling that you’re grateful for the courage it took to change course.
The Challenge
Grief hits in waves: anger, sadness, relief, terror, all crashing over you at once. You’re drowning in emotions you can’t control, swinging between numbness and overwhelming pain.
Imagine…
Learning to honor your emotions without being consumed by them. Rebuilding your emotional foundation and discovering you’re stronger than you ever imagined.
The Challenge
The legal system feels like a foreign country where you don’t speak the language. Every decision carries massive consequences for your future, but you don’t understand the rules.
Imagine…
Gaining clarity and confidence in navigating your legal journey, understanding your rights, and advocating effectively for your best interests.
The Challenge
Who are you when you’re no longer “we?” The roles that defined you have vanished. You stare in the mirror at a stranger, questioning every decision, every dream you once shared.
Imagine…
Rediscovering your authentic self beyond any relationship. Building an identity rooted in your worth, not your relationship status.
The Challenge
The numbers don’t add up. How do you maintain a home or build a future on half the income? The fear of financial ruin keeps you awake at night, making every purchase a source of anxiety.
Imagine…
Creating a realistic financial plan that empowers rather than paralyzes. Building confidence in your ability to provide for yourself and your family.
The Challenge
Your children are hurting, confused, angry—and you’re supposed to be their rock when you can barely stand. The guilt is crushing: Did you destroy their childhood?
Imagine…
Becoming the stable, present parent your children need. Learning effective co-parenting strategies and creating new family traditions that bring joy and security.
The Challenge
Friends take sides or disappear entirely. You realize how much of your social world was built around being a couple, leaving you feeling invisible and utterly alone.
Imagine…
Building an authentic support network that celebrates the real you. Finding your tribe of people who understand your journey and cheer for your growth
The Challenge
The life you planned has evaporated. Will you ever love again? Will anyone want you? Can you really start over at this age? The future that once seemed certain now feels like a terrifying blank page.
Imagine…
Embracing the freedom to write your own story. Discovering that starting over isn’t punishment—it’s opportunity. Building a life so fulfilling that you’re grateful for the courage it took to change course.
The 9 Myths Of Divorce
Divorce is hard enough without being misled by outdated advice, fear tactics, or flat-out myths. Too many people enter the process with beliefs that are not true, which can cost them time, money, and peace of mind. That is why I created The 9 Myths of Divorce, a free guide that cuts through the confusion and gives you the facts you need to make smarter decisions.
This resource is customized for each state, reflecting the unique laws, rules, and court practices where you live. From custody arrangements to property division to how infidelity is handled, each version is written specifically for your state so you can get the most relevant and accurate information.
Inside, you’ll discover the truth about common misconceptions, like whether mothers always get custody, if cheating changes the outcome in court, and whether you can be stopped from getting a divorce if your spouse refuses. You’ll also learn why some “common-sense” moves, like withholding visitation over unpaid child support, can actually backfire. Each myth is explained with clear examples, practical tips, and insight to help you move forward with confidence instead of uncertainty.
Submit the short form below to download your tailored guide, and start replacing fear with clarity today.
CLIENT STORIES
I’d been in an abusive 21-year marriage and had dealt with years of infidelity and deception. When I finally decided to leave him, I was a terrified mess, feeling emotionally battered and unable to make the next move without spinning out emotionally.
Beth helped me reframe what was going on, reassured me of what was real and what was fear. She helped get me back to a space of centeredness so I could take action steps to prepare myself for divorce.
She explained the next steps clearly to me, allowing me to maximize my time with my attorney and save money in the process. There’s so much emotion and so many details involved in the process of divorce. I couldn’t have done this with such a clear mind without Beth. So eternally grateful.
When my husband left me for another woman, I was so freaked out. I had been a stay-at-home mom for ten years and still had young kids at home. I had no idea how I’d support myself.
Beth first helped me get to a place where I could make decisions for my future from a place of calm, and good planning. Then I knew what to ask for in the divorce.
Today, I have my own business, and while it’s still overwhelming at times, I have hope and I’m learning to invest in myself.
Thanks, Beth!
Working with Insight Divorce Solutions was a game changer.
I thought I’d lose everything and get taken to the cleaners.
They helped me think strategically, be able to negotiate with my ex, and stay super involved with my children.
When my husband told me he was leaving me, my whole world fell apart.
I had to start my life over in my 50s, and didn’t know where to start.
Beth and the team at IDS helped me plan a better future than I could imagine, guided me through strategic decisions, and were my rock.
Now my life is better than ever.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Q: What does Insight Divorce Solutions do?
A: IDS offers supportive, practical guidance through every stage of divorce. We help you clarify your goals, stay organized, and move forward with clarity, confidence, and emotional balance. We provide referrals to trusted partners for therapists, parenting coordinators, certified divorce real estate agents and lending professionals and much more.
Q: How is divorce coaching different from therapy or legal support?
A: Divorce coaching is distinct from therapy or legal services. We're not therapists, we don't diagnose or treat mental health disorders. And we're not your attorney, we don't give legal advice or represent you in court. Instead, we support you in preparing for legal meetings, organizing documentation, making decisions, communicating clearly, and maintaining emotional resilience throughout the divorce process. We also provide you with tools you can use, and referrals to trusted attorneys, real estate agents and much more.
Q: Will you give me legal advice?
A: No. IDS does not provide legal advice and does not replace an attorney. We help you prepare questions for your lawyer, understand the divorce process, and make sure you're decision-ready, but we leave legal matters to licensed attorneys. We can also help you save money with your legal bills.
Q: Who can benefit from divorce coaching with IDS?
A: Anyone experiencing separation or considering divorce may benefit, whether you're amicable, unsure about filing, or facing a high-conflict situation. Our clients range from those needing a few guided steps to individuals seeking consistent support throughout the entire process. We also work with those post-divorce who could use support in rebuilding their life.
Q: Can IDS help me deal with a high-conflict or narcissistic ex?
A: Yes. We provide strategies to help you establish healthy boundaries, communicate more safely (or avoid harmful communication), document interactions, and maintain emotional stability, all focused on protecting your well-being and your children's trust and safety. Our Certified High Conflict Co-parenting Coach can provide you with tools and practices to minimize the conflict and help you gain confidence in your communication.
Q: Do I have to have filed for divorce to start coaching?
A: Not at all. Insight Divorce Solutions supports people at any stage, whether you're just exploring your options, deciding if divorce is the right path, preparing to file, or already mid-process.
Q: Are coaching sessions private and confidential?
A: Absolutely. Sessions are 100% confidential. Our goal is to give you a safe, judgment-free space to express concerns, get clarity, and plan your next steps.
Q: How long do clients typically work with Insight Divorce Solutions?
A: It varies. Some clients use a handful of sessions for specific issues. Others prefer ongoing support until resolution. We tailor session frequency to your unique needs, goals, and comfort level.
Q: What if my ex doesn't want to cooperate or participate?
A: That's okay. Coaching is for you, you don't need your ex to be involved to benefit. We help you navigate this process independently, while protecting your boundaries and mental health.
Q: What happens in my first session with Insight Divorce Solutions?
A: In the first session we'll explore where you're at, what's on your mind, and what challenges you're facing. Then we'll work together to identify your goals, create a personalized plan, and outline immediate next steps to help you move forward with clarity.
Q: Will you help me with communication, documentation, and tough conversations?
A: Yes. We support you in crafting messages, preparing scripts, organizing documentation, and approaching difficult conversations with calm, clarity, and purpose, so you stay grounded and confident throughout the process.
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